To interfere with the fate of others is to bear the cause and effect of others Why don't you talk to people about Bitcoin in your life? Because most of the time, you let him buy it, and the increase is because he has a high awareness, and you just happen to provide the news; But if he loses, it is you who cause him to lose money. Most of the friends in life do not have the slightest investment experience, and if you talk to him about any investment opportunities, they are almost likely to be blamed or secretly wronged. In fact, not only investment, everything in life is like this, I used to have an obvious problem of "being a good teacher", and I liked to express some "high opinions", but as I understood more, I talked less and less. For example, if someone asks you if you want to buy a house, you are proficient in real estate, but if you give someone a deep thinking about yourself, the result is good, you just tell him "something you already know" or "something everyone knows"; If it weren't for you, he wouldn't have been trapped at all, or you desperately asked him to buy that house - you didn't have a chance to defend yourself, he told people that you desperately asked him to buy it. For example, if someone asks you about their child's college major, job choices, and various questions, most of the time they should be cautious and give their own answers - interestingly, some people have high understanding of these things and understand them at the age of 20; Some people have poor understanding, and they have to suffer some dumb losses to understand that I belong to the latter. The biggest principle of work, investment, and life is to make yourself comfortable and avoid getting involved in uncomfortable events and relationships. There is a huge difference between people, and it is difficult to understand between human nature, so it is good to do what is kind and comfortable. Of course, it doesn't mean that everyone has to be an indifferent person, and the personality cannot be changed, for example, my personality is enthusiastic, but it's just not good to be a teacher, sympathy is overflowing - just like investment has to choose a target, and people have to choose friends and the right thing. The same thing, the same practice, the result is completely different in the face of different people. When I need help, I keep in mind any sincere guidance to me, and as for whether this guidance is scientific or not, I will study it carefully myself, and I will not blame the person who pointed me out for any reason - only gratitude. But there is a type of people who even think that most people may be the opposite, and their mentality is not right. For example, when it comes to an investment target, someone has a good impression of me, because they know that I have never been optimistic about what I hold, I will share what I hold, and I have never colluded with the project party, nor have I engaged in such a thing as shouting orders for shipment. But there is a type of people, similar to what was said above, they don't care about other people's logic and opinions, they only care about their own results. Character determines fate, good character, good luck, good people, and good things will become more and more, and wealth is simply a reward by the way; And bad personality, bad luck, bad people, and bad things will become more and more, and wealth will always be on the road to pursuit. *** This article is about a recent divorce after seeing a mother open a contract, her husband repeatedly helped him pay off his debts, and finally lost the house and then divorced, some of the details are shocking, and I also think that maybe human nature is like this. For example, her mother-in-law asked her to find a job, I believe it was well-intentioned, staying at home and not working will change her mentality, and she may not be able to control her gambling addiction - but she thinks that her mother-in-law looks down on her, so she wants to continue gambling. For example, her husband pooled money to help her pay off her foreign debts, afraid that he would continue to gamble and control the money, she felt that he looked down on her, so she wanted to continue gambling. This mode of thinking makes people feel ridiculous, sad and lamentable, but many people's brain circuits in life are like this, always feeling that others are here to harm her, and always make excuses for their failures. I can't help but think that when I had no money, a friend asked me to borrow money twice, and the second time I borrowed money on the grounds of my mother's serious illness, promising to pay it back in a week, asking me to swipe my credit card to him, and then I never paid it back, and even cheated me, and I kept avoiding it. Respect the fate of others and never interfere with cause and effect. Don't argue about anything, be yourself, the world will give everyone what he deserves.